Well, I’ve tried many positions and such but for me sex has only ever felt good once or twice. I’ve had 2 partners and I don’t know what to do. Foreplay is good, I can get wet easily but the actual sex doesn’t feel ‘good’. It doesn’t hurt either, but ugh. I’m jealous of all my friends who brag about their sex lives, I’ve never experienced an orgasm or anything close. Is something wrong with me? Serious answers are appreciated..


Find a guy who knows what he is doing.
there’s nothing wrong with you. this is unfortunately extremely common. my best advice is to take some “alone time” by yourself, (without your partner in other words) and see if you can’t figure out what’s works for you. if it doesn’t hurt then that’s excellent! your problem could be as simple as you need more foreplay and that’s an easy fix. sometimes it just takes awhile to really figure out what works for your body. in my case, it took me several partners and 5 years of trying to finally get it to work. my fiance is the first person other than myself to ever get me to orgasm and by no means did it happen on the first try. spend some extra time with yourself, maybe add some toys and lube, eventually if you keep working for it you’ll figure it out. just don’t stress about it because if you put too much pressure on making it happen that can chase it away. if you have any questions about tricks or methods to help make things work, feel free to send me a private message on here.
If by sex you are mainly speaking about intercourse it may be normal. Most girls ( the ones I know) do not achieve orgasm or much pleasure from going in and out. Direct clitoral stimulation is necessary. Yes some girls can have an orgasm that way but a good number do not. Sometimes a lot of oral and manual stimulation is necessary to enjoy the experience. You can do this while your partner does his thing with you. Masturbation can help you have an orgasm and I think most girls and guys do that. Consider it a rehearsal for the big day. Good Luck
Did you know that 10% of women can’t have an orgasm? It’s true. You could be one of them. That doesn’t mean you can’t still have a pleasurable sex life, though. Like you said, you enjoy foreplay. Focus more on that. Some women just don’t really like vaginal intercourse. It’s totally normal, and there are lots of other things you can do with your partner. Use your imagination