I have been chatting with this guy that i met on face book for about 5 days now.We haven’t met up in person yet.I am really interested in him so i ask him for his number and we exchanged numbers.
However,whenever we chat online,he always turns the conversation into sex.Even the first we started talking.I don’t mind mind but i am afraid that he might be only after one thing.I have been with guys who are only after sex before and i don’t like it because i want to be the girl they take home to mom ,buy dinner and gave me respect by giving me the title of being their girlfriend..
Even when i spoke to him yesterday,the first thing he told me was,he was naked in his room and he was asking me what type of position i like.
Is only after sex?


Yea I’d say so, Sorry!
Sorry to tell you but it seems like it. I would ask him or I would just not talk to him anymore.
id say so too, sorry
YES ! he’s only after sex ! and u shouldn’t have given your number to him so soon,
In this situation i believe that you know exactly the answer for your question. If you only meet him for 5 days now, and he is already “flirting around” with the sex talk, he definitely wants sex… and only sex! I know it sucks that you really like him and everything, but then again wouldn’t you rather get it over with and dump him than, do it with him, then him dump you!
i’d say so,if he asks a lot of women(in person he’d probably get slapped a lot) but it would be totally surprising how much sex he gets.
all the time he talks about sex- not good! sex is not the only thing to talk about each time…
Most definitely that is on his mind.
Find yourself someone else who wants to get to know the REAL you.
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Most likely.
OMG – he sounds like a perv
He should be interested in you as a person, not a sex object
5 days is nothing, be careful and don’t meet up yet
Well … yeah. If all he talks about is sex and turns every conversation back to sex, that’s what he wants. Sex. Kind of hard to miss that one. If you don’t want to be “that kind of girl” don’t have those kind of conversations.
Yep. Sounds like it.
This is gross, offensive and creepy. Why on earth would you give him your number and say you’re “really interested” in him? You seriously don’t see a big problem with this? If you have a pattern of attracting guys who only want sex, you need to figure out what you’re doing wrong, or you’ll continue to run off the ones who are keepers.
I think you want a boyfriend too badly.
If he is turning every conversation to sex and you haven’t even met in real life and you’ve only known each other online for 5 days…yeah, he just is looking for a booty call.
I know you said you don’t mind, but the thing is that if you want to be the girl that someone takes home to mom, then you should mind. When you are someone’s cyber booty call, you will only be their cyber booty call. You will never meet mom and never be given the title and respect of girlfriend.
The thing is that you get to decide how you allow yourself to be treated. By being open to this kind of conversation, you allowed yourself to be put in the category of sex toy. If you want to be in the category of girlfriend, you need to have higher standards and expect respect. You allowed him to imagine you in your favorite sexual positions when he hasn’t even bought you a drink, let alone dinner. And all you would have had to do to stop this is from the very beginning either not respond to the sexual innuendos or say “I don’t feel comfortable where this conversation is going.” If he were a real man and looking for more than a booty call, he would toe the line and treat you with respect….instead of as his cyber f*** buddy.
Here is a cold harsh reality. A lot of men use sex on the first date as a tool to weed out the keepers from the non-keepers. And the women who put out on the first date are put in the non-keeper category by many men.
You are more than just your girly parts. Have more respect for yourself. Even animals in the wild expect and demand more from their prospective mates.