i dont really know where to start but ill give it a go.
Ive been with my boyfriend 3 years now and have two kids with him. I met him in the july and had moved in with him in the september so it was really quick and then fell pregnant with my daughter in the february then moved into our own home in the august then fell pregnant with my son in the march-april and had my son in december and had an abortion in the may (had to as something wrong) then moved into another house in the may aswell so ALOT has happend in 3 years!!! I dont no whether that may be the cause?? I love my bf so much and cant bear to be without him but he doesnt think this as i pay more attention to my kids and housework then him and he picks up on it all the time and i dont no wot to say. i dont want to hug or kiss him and sex is a really big issue, i feel like i really dont want it but do it to shut him up coz he always bugs me. We’ve tried different things like positions and lube and dressing up and more oral but it still doesnt make me want sex with him i feel like its a chore and i have to do it so he keeps quiet for a few days. I do love him so much like i say but he doesnt believe me as i dont show any affection and dont give him sex so he has every right to think i dont love him but i dont no why i dont do it like show affection or want sex. Please help i dont no why ive lost my sex drive or my affection towards him???
2 Kids,1 Abortion, Love Boyfriend But Dont Want Sex?
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You probably don’t want sex right now because you are exhausted! Two kids, and moving, not to mention having an abortion is very stressful. Many young mothers feel as you do. The sex drive will come back as the kids get older and you get more rest.
I do think you should get married as you have children with your boyfriend. What are you waiting for? If you were married, you’d feel more secure and maybe even more sexual.
No doubt, raising two young children can wear you out. Does he share in the help around the house? If you are physically exhausted, suggest that he share in some of the work so that you can “play’ later when the kids are asleep. BUt if you are emotionally drained, you might need professional help, if just talking to him doesn’t work. I assume you have verbalized your concern to him. Remember, the problem is not just yours, so don’t beat yourself up. Instead, a marriage is a union of two people, to share in the joy, and sorrows.
And one more thing? ask yourself if your 3 pregnanciess, which cause you to redefine who you are, could be a contributing factor in not wanting sex because it could lead to yet another pregnancy?
HOpe it works out for ya